Are you nervous about your wedding night? The brides and groom are both nervous and excited about their first night. It is a special night, but the pressure to make the best night of your life can lead to problems. But you don’t have to worry about it being perfect. The first night after a wedding is not only about getting intimate with your partner. It’s getting to know them better, especially if you weren’t living together before. It is also about enjoying the special moments of being husband and wife.
Yet, everyone wants their wedding night to be exciting, beautiful, and memorable. If you want this, too, read on below to learn how.
Sex isn’t everything.
A bride often gets tips about getting intimate on their wedding night. All women in their lives tell them how essential it is. They ask them to get sexy lingerie to make them ready for this. But you should know that sex isn’t everything. It is necessary for a physical bond between partners, but not essential. It is not mandatory to get intimate on the first night. You and your partner can use it to relax. Or get to know each other better.
A wedding is a big day, and it tires you out. So, your body and mind are already under stress. Therefore, you need to calm down and relax before the wedding night. It will spoil the night if you are stressed or anxious about the first night. So, even if you want to get intimate, the stress will ruin the mood. Use these tips to deal with wedding night anxiety to have an exciting night.
Keep the look simple.
A wedding night pressurizes a bride to buy clothes she is not comfortable in. If getting intimate on the wedding night is on your to-do list, you need sexy lingerie. But that doesn’t mean you should buy something that isn’t you. Leave it if you don’t feel comfortable in a lace night suit. Instead, keep it simple with lace lingerie that looks great on you. The idea is to look sexy but also be comfortable. Otherwise, it will just ruin your special night.
Flirt with each other.
Part of making your wedding night exciting starts at the reception alone. Build the excitement for later by flirting with each other. In between meeting the guests and paying the vendors, find time for each other. Flirt, kiss, and cuddle with each other as it helps have a romantic night.
Take a break from each other before the wedding.
If you were living together before the wedding, change it up. Stay with a friend or family for a week up until the wedding. It will make the wedding night more exciting for you two. You will see each other after a long time, making it exciting. Also, the sex will feel fresh after this long.
Irrespective of whether your first night happens in a hotel or your house, make the ambiance romantic. Even if you two want to gaze into each other’s eyes the entire night, having a romantic setting helps. For instance, take charge and plan the night. Have champagne in the room. Decorate with flowers and light candles for a sweet scent. Moreover, play light romantic music in the room.
Whatever you want the night to look like, you don’t want a hygiene issue getting in the way. Sure, your partner vowed to love you for who you are, but bad breath shouldn’t be one of them. So, brush your teeth before you get into the room. Then, change into your night-time sexy attire, brush your hair, and ensure you use the washroom. It will look weird to go to the bathroom in-between sexy moments or deep conversations.
Don’t have high expectations.
Movies fool you! Not everyone has the perfect wedding night. Things go wrong because that’s life. So, be prepared for things to go wrong. Don’t set your expectations too high.
These tips for brides are impressive and doable. Every bride dreams of her wedding night and wants it to be special. With these tips, you can make it a memorable day without putting too much pressure on it.